Unlike any president’s wife in the history of presidents, I look as if I dress not to look “appropriate”, not to look “political”, not to look “mature”, but for my own damn self, and if that means wearing jewel-bright colors and pretty dresses and coats, then all the better. I wore a brown pant suit accented by a turquoise scarf that helped soften my look, telling the small audience that I no longer believe in the old saying that it’s important to “dress for success.”